How Chinese Girls Can Find Western Men?

You are a Chinese Girls, and want to date a Western Man… This article is for you.

Lot of Chinese Girls ask me this questions, and I will tell your options to find Western Men and how to seduce them.

I will speak about Alpha Western Men, 10% most attractive one.


PS: I am a Alpha Western Man. Quite Handsome, successful, Tall Strong, and know how to charm girls, specially Chinese Girls (without buying them a flat)


Western Men VS Chinese Ladies

I know, lot of Blog & websites already speak about that… I will speak generally and then going kinky… and into Western Men fantasies…

  1. Most Western Men like Asian Girls

  2. Some Chinese girls have a fantasy of western Men


2 worlds and 2 different Approachs


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Almost all of the Chinese girls I talked with said that they love that their Western men enjoy life. They won’t want a partner who lives just to work and make money

Western men that she’s relation,  they have an open minded view of life.

It is for sure the result of a different education, more open or just the fact that they have explored a new Country China.

Chinese girls Western man

some Chinese girls see Western men as a free ticket to an trip or a US passport, but there are gold-diggers anywhere in the world, and forget about that

The truth is Western men are exotic for Chinese Girls

Many foreign guys would like to believe Chinese girls date them because they have a more muscular bodyshape or are bigger Dick

  • BUT It is not true ! 



Western boys showed Chinese girls a new culture, lifestyle and gave a new perspective on the world, relationship

How Chinese Girls Can Find Western Men?


  1. Tinder You can find Men on Tinder (with VPN) . I guess it is the paradise to find westerner for Chinese girls…
  2. Tantan , for the more local Foreigner , possible and it can works
  3. OKcupid : a website for Dating where you can find people…. it also works out…
  4. Badoo etc… why not…
  5. Other forums … why not too
  6. Kinky Sites Fetlife is the best


Tips to Date online

Have a Sexy picture + sexy descriptio+ Sexy other pictures.

What kind of Girls you think Western men will be attracted?

TantanChinese girls Tinder




Face picture


Body Pictures


You have to be attractive, to collect maximum of likes, so later you can choose

Many girls pretend to Be Shy or Naive… IT DOES NOT WORK

Just Be Sexy and Attractive. 

selfi bimbo Chinese


Trick of online dating is the massive Choices…

For most attractive men, they have plemty of women that speak to them.

Engagement is the key with nice message and follow up.

Ask for a meeting is necessary, to have the good/bad feedback



Go where Westerners Go, you can go alone or with one Friends

Tips to go to bar

Wear sexy clothing and be ready to catch western men eyes. When they look at you, just smile and they will come to speak to you.

You think it is too much… Try once. 

party slut chinese

Dance is a sexy way … do not be shy with western men… they are primitive when they are in Disco/Bars , and like outgoing girls


If you really like a man, you can go to speak with him, and ask his WeChat…


Coffee, Restaurant, in the Street

If you like a man, you can speak with him, and tell him your wechat ID, or give to him your name card… and let him decide to contact you back…


If you are Sexy and Elegant… you will get better results… I promice you.



STEP 2  Engagement

After you get first contact, it is not Done.. it Just Start actually

You need to interact and get engagement of this western Men.

  1. If you are Super Sexy, it is easy…
  2. If you are not that Attractive , work on it, and be smart and how how interesting you are

Bimbo China Pic

I encourage you to be Active, and interesting.

  • Active by sending sometimes some updates and asking question
  • Interesting : and avoid Chinese stereotypes

Online is a good way to Keep Contact

  • Be Naugty
  • Send him regular picture
  • Let him know you are attractive
  • Do not be afraid to speak about Sex
  • and tease him

Wish him good night

sexy attitude Chinese


STEP 3 Meeting /Date

After good conversation, you have mutual feeling you can meet face to face and let him manage it…

During the date, be nice, sexy smart pleasant … all stuff that will make you attractive to his eyes and his mind.

Disco China bimbo

Do not be Boring     Be Sexy …



STEP 4 The SEX part

Yes the Sex Part is really important for Western Men… how good is the Sexual connexion between you guys… Do not understimate this Step and do not be Over confident.

most Chinese Girls have Bad Sex Skills and leck of experience, make the sex just So so…

  1. It is not only about receive pleasure girls…. it is about giving too.
  2. It is not just simple Fuck… It is a great Moment for both of you.


Western Men really enjoy Good Sex…


And good sex can mean different thing for Chinese and Westerner

Porn are different, so to get a better idea, you can watch pornhub or Redtube and get a better overview of Sex Difference.


Sex Training … Yes it is a Good idea

  • you think  it is weird… i Know.
  • You think you do not need … I know.

But actually 95% of Chinese Girls should improve their Sex skills …

  1. Blowjob skills
  2. Body control
  3. Wording
  4. Face attitude
  5. Sex Movement
  6. Technics to Stimulate a Man


I will create an article speaking about that…

training blow

If the Sex is not good, you do not have second Chance with Alpha Men. 


Read also :


STEP 5 girlfriend’s life

During this step, you have to show that you are a good girlfriends,and he will sho how good he is and see if you match…

If you feel does not match… do not continue, and search new one

If you enjoy to be with him… you can go further into the relationship and try new Sex Stuff…

Lot of idea and extrem Stuff on this website like ROLE PLAY 


I hope this article help you little bit, if yes comment or share it.


19 thoughts on “How Chinese Girls Can Find Western Men?

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  1. Mixed White & asian girl. educated, smart and bratty. Mostly looking for latino & white mixed men who know what a good slut needs, but open if you think you can handle this. Innocent face, curvy, girl-next-door type here.
    please for the love of god attempt to use complete sentences when you email me.
    Of course I have kik, but no, we cant chat on there until we meet in person.

    Interested in all kinds of play. Love being a princess, love sensuality, and love being a whore. Mostly I just want to be tied up and used to make daddy happy. Teased and inspected. A bit of embarrassment humiliation (not selfworth)is always fun. Dirty talk, force play. a tiny taste for taboo. yum.


  2. i am a simple girl, been collared for the last 3 years by a wonderful Master.

    Only looking for kinky friends to chat with and learn more about this lifestyle.

    i will not be allowed to real life play without permission of Master first.

    Please don’t take it personally if i do not reply to all the messages i receive here.


  3. I am a Chinese asubmissive, looking to learn more about the bdsm lifestyle.

    What I have been introduced to so far I have loved and can not wait to learn more.

    I have hard limits that I will not to cross, for example children and animals.

    I am in search of something that has the potenial of going to a relationship.

    Anything more you would like to talk with me about I would be happy to discuss.


  4. If you are a Chinese girl who has a group fantasy (in Shanghai) then maybe I can make it happen! Safely and discretely.

    I am an experienced mature Dom who is good at organising group sessions. And I have been making girls group fantasies come true for over 5 years. In fact one of my sessions even got a mentioned last years Channel Sex Party Secrets!

    Currently Im particularly looking for bisexual sub girls who would enjoy helping with another bisexual girls fantasy after she has had her own group fantasy session


  5. asian girl, ready to submit to a great master. you must host, and i will travel to your dungeon for your pleasure.
    give me your wechat


  6. I am searching an handsome,tall,smart western guy living in Shanghai for many years

    I like strict spanking and domestic discipline punishments to me. I am a Chinese woman below the age of 45.
    No other SM stuff,only old fashioned spanking from a stern but caring lady.
    Discretion and respect of limits assured.


  7. How Chinese Girls Can Find Western Men?
    Most of time, they go to some event, going party to disco
    In Shanghai, mind, Bar rouge … these famous disco are full of Chinese girls searching for expats…


  8. when we know that sexy Chinese KOL are more famous than TV star, nothing surprise me in this country.
    I think that a lot of girls should follow your tips… master Kris.


  9. and my last bdsm experience was now 3 days when a friend of mine came at me in visit and he like to spank my ass al the time we go in my pool where i wear yoga cameltoes who were very transparent he took a pair of handcuffs and when he touch my ass and kiss me tied my hands in front while my hands touches his cock he take me to a 0,5m water and there he fucked badly my mouth and tongue he teared my pants and fuck badly and my ass and he cumed on all my face


  10. How Chinese girl date foreigner my story.

    We have a date together. We go to diner in a romantic restanrant and have a very pleasent date. During all the diner, we tease eachother, talking about how sex together could be, experienced we had, fantasies, fetishes….During all this discussion, you rubbed my legs with yours under the table. We finally go back to our hotel. In the street we walk close to eachother, me rubbing your back in a sensual way.
    In the elevataor we can’t wait anymore and kiss with passion. In the bedroom, we don’t waste time anymore and take our clothes off. I can finally admire your hot and sexy body, your amazing curves, your soft skin. I take your bra off and expose your big tits. Without hesitation I squeeze them and bend over to take one in my mouth and suc kit with passion.
    My tongues goes up and down on your nipple, makes circles around it, play with it again and suc kit. I suc kit as if you had milk in it and could breastfeed me. After I played with your tits and made your nipples very hard and sensitive, I lay you down on the bed, take your panties off while I kiss you all over your whole body. Your neck, your chest, your belly, your legs…until my head is finally between your legs.
    . I kiss and lick you on your groans to tease you. My tongue goes closer and closer to your lips. I lick you all around your pussy, but don’t lick it yet….I feel you breathing deeper and you put your hand on my hair. I know you’re impatient and want me to lick you so bad. I stop torturing you and finally put my lips on your sweet clit. At the second you feel my lips on it, you can’t hold a loud and sexy moan. I lick it softly first, as I licked your nipples.
    Then my tongue licks your slit, tasting your delicious juice, while my hand goes up to squeeze your big tits at the same time. Your hand on my hand grab my hair harder. You breath louder, deeper and move your hips to make me lick you harder and faster. That’s what I do. So fast and hard I don’t lick you anymore but eat your sweet pussy. You moan more and more, scream louodly and con’t hold back but cum in my mouth. With.a smile, I drink all of your juice which also cover my chinese and a part of my face.


  11. A Bondage story in China

    Im thinking perverted dark room clubs with a twist of bondage no pain, only pleasure and emotions 🙂
    So, I sit across your seat on the tube, not so may people. In Korea there was clubs with KTV, I know what it is. Naughty places:)
    You are sexy dressed on your way back from work.
    I bend fwd to se the time, looking down between your sexy boobs.
    We are organizing a party shortly. You are perfectly dressed to join! “I say and look you in your eyes” resting my hand on your wrist.
    Cool you in, we both go off the tube at the next stop, at street level, turn right in a dark alley, but nice area. In front of a big wooden door, we stop and knock 4 times. Wait and the door opens. The guard, a tall asian women say. Hello Sir Jack. Welcome. Who do you bring here tonight?
    Thank you Miss Yk. This is sexy Kiki (a sexy asian girl). She is here to be entertained tonight 🙂
    I smile and take your hand, walk down the stairs into the resception room. It has a desk, more like a reception on a hotel. Drinks are served there and its about 10 people in the room, mixed sexes. Mostly Japanese orgin mixed with a few europeans included myself. I say and look at you, “you are mine kind of look” I give you a glass of chapagne, cheers Kiki
    Now, miss Yk is walking up to us and I order a glass for her too

    So, Miss Yk, shall we all go to the room, I ask and smile a naughty grin Yes, Jack, lets go and play, she say and grab your hand and walk into the corridor. All rooms are fitted with thick walls and expencieve furnitures, the light is dimmed and has a red or purple shine. We step into the room and its big with jaccusi, shower, a big sofa and chairs. In the oposite corner, there are restrain gear. Every room is diffren, this room has a bench with soft leather on top. hands and feet can be locked
    Miss Yk, I say. Can you please take Becca to shower and clean her up for the play. Sure Sir Jack, and she take you to the shower area and ask you to undress
    Miss Yk is pro with her hands and soap you in real good…everywhere
    hmmm, Yk!!!
    I shot out from the “bondage corner”
    Bring kiki over here.
    As you two walks over to me, I say to you. Kiki, wanna feel good tonight?
    Yk, help you place you on your tummy on the bench, your toes, just touch the floor. I fit the chain and tighten up each leg. On the other side your arms are chained and tighten in the oposite direction
    Your legs are natural widened and your pussy lips starts to swell as you feel wanted and the ambiance has a lot of sexual stimula in it
    I tighten the chains a little more and feel with my hand your wet pussy

    So now you are really tight restrained. Your sexy breasts is pushed hard towards the bench
    Miss Yk, please show Kiki your true apperance. I smile as she walks over and open the cupboard.
    Miss Yk, comes back with the flogger. A wide soft leather flogger.
    She starts to give you light snacks on your bum, left right alternating
    As Miss Yk treat your bum, I walk up standing next to her and kiss her with passion.
    Hmmm, Miss Yk, lets have fun with Becca, I say and smile. The whole setup makes me horny and my cock is growing hard


  12. as we are locking away our lugages and trying to find a comfortable way to seat, I am very close to you … that I can breath the warmth of your body and the scent which streams from the skin of your cleavage . this and the fact that you are a beautiful Asian lady with arousingly big breasts, let my heart beat faster and let me feel a swelling in my trousers maybe you notice my looks on your bossom … how would you react?
    when we were about to fasten our seat belts, I am offering you my help … to lean over to you and smell more of the send from your neck and chin
    after taking off and having a small talk for warming up the conversation between us, I am ordering two glasses of wine for us
    the sweet taste and the alcohol relaxes us and I dare to make the compliment, that you are an arousingly beautiful Asian lady 🙂
    the sweet taste and the alcohol relaxes us and I dare to make the compliment, that you are an arousingly beautiful Asian lady 🙂
    you might notice again my eyes, which are not only meeting your’s but following down your neck and looking more intensly at your breasts …with the alcohol and with more courage I directly say to you, that you are having beautiful eyes and … arousingly big breasts … and that I would love to feel and gently stroke them … with this I feel your cleavage with my stroking finger along the edge of your neckline
    next part tomorrow


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