Hot topic of these days, online Domination & Submission.
Because of quarantaine, people stay at home (safe) and humain have to adapt their consumption to a more online model, and sex is not an exception.
Why would you want an online Domination & Submission relationship?
For me there are 4 big reasons
- Because of “quarataine” #corona
- Because you live in different area
- Can be good to have first trial to see if both like, and to know more each other
- For beginner, it can be a first safe place
The main advantage of online submission for a submissive, it is 100% safe ;
And can give first feeling of being dominated, domination is first mental before being physical.
And after a while, the physical meeting usually is better.
Just for new submissive, do not send picture of you with your face , do not send your real name at the beginning, and do not send your address.
The main desadvantage is leck of feeling for submissive
For dominant, it is complicated to guess the submissive feelings
For Dominant, leck of action limitate the BDSM game, like harder to punish brat online.
Online : learn and practice
A reason is that some people use an online Domination submission relationship to learn more about dominance and submission.
To see if it’s something that might work or not, and the interest for a real-time experience. For young dominant, they can be more confident behind their screen than in reality.
Online submissive can be a place for many girl to practice in 100% being anonymus .
Mutual trust, feedback, respect and honesty
When it comes to giving order and controlling the life of the submissive, orders can be given in several ways, but always have to trust, feedback, respect and honesty
Trust It takes time to build trust between 2 partners, usually. Better to understand each other fantasyand limits.
I like to ask questions about fantasy, limits, and experiences (good or bad one)
feedback is really important online to understand how each other feel…
Respect the submissive desires and limits, it is a game where the dominant lead and where a good learder should drive her submissive in her fantasy world. The respect of of her desire is the priority of the dominant first. The submissive should show her respect to her dominant online with polite sentence and by calling him by respectful name.
Honnesty : the both part should be honnest with each other and feel be free to explain what they like and dislike to avoid problems.
Dom/sub should be a cerebral connection — the brain is the first sex organ, before the other for girls.
Pictures, webcam , video
Usually it will increase the feeling to have a visual contact for both side. At the beginning, i would recommand to be cautious, and do it later step by step, when trust is there.
Visual proof . submissive can take photos of your completed task and send it by mail to her master.
Sexy stimulation : sexy stimulation can be really effective, specially for a dominant to see her submissive in a sexy outfit, naked or in a specific position.
Webcam, to have an online conference is of course really exciting for both part. The submissive can follow her master order, and feedback is better compare to chat …
One of the most exciting part of online dom/sub game, is the dirty talking, and the humiliation that bring to many girls that like that. When it is real, it is complicated to call a girl slut, but when it s online, they are more willing to accept, because it is a private place 1-1, because nobody know that, and because they are safe to cut if they want.
Usually, dominant can make online training for her submissive , it can be a sensual way to stimulate the domination relationship.
How to train a submissive online?
By teaching your rules, and understand her fantasies… Chatting , sending small task, orders, develop your domination step by step.
Idea & inspiration for your online submission & domination
Master – slave
Here is a very simple game to play when you start to enter the Domination and Submission game.
- The sub can only obey the instructions. They must do whatever they are told to do. (Of course, these are things that have already been called.)
- The sub cannot do anything on its own.
- The submissive cannot speak unless it is spoken to.
- The slave cannot make eye contact unless the Dom requests it.
A slutty subissive can make show for his dom, and make him horny. The submissive girl could arrange the room in a way that the Dom would like, dress in the Dom’s favorite sexy cloth, practice oral sex or allow the Dom to choose exactly what it wants at all times. The sub draws the attention of her dominant or to other men.
Send sexy pictures to her dom, can also be really effective to stimulate the realtionship.
And put a kinky title to picture usually stimulate the master mind.
Punishment is one of the fundamental principles of a Dom / Sub relationship. It’s one of the simplest but most effective ways to take your Dom / Sub relationship up.
In the same way that novice subs can begin to dress a list of ways to demonstrate their dedication, they can also dress lists of forms of punishment that they accept if they go away. Punishment should always has proof.
If the Dom is feeling happy, he has to reward her girl. , they can let their sub know about specific rewards they’ll get if they complete their chores on time and in the proper cloth or accessories etc. For example, the sub might get to have an orgasm, or they might get a present.
I hope this little guide for online submission have been useful.
You can contact me for further questions.
Do I practice online domination?
Yes sometimes, but prefer real game. other question about me here
Please comment, i like encouragement.
If you want, i can share one experience of online domination (1. China online training 2. Slut training 3. slave online relationship 4. coaching of an influencer)